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In letzter Zeit bin ich unglaublich motiviert Fotos zu machen. Mir schweben unendlich viele Outfit-Ideen im Kopf herum und alle möchten am liebsten direkt umgesetzt werden. Zum Glück hab ich derzeit auch motivierte Freunde um mich herum, die gerne auf den Auslöser drücken. Das muss natürlich genutzt werden und deswegen verwöhne ich aktuell auch Instagram sehr damit, dass ich täglich neue Fotos uploade.

Auf Instagram ging in letzter Zeit wieder sehr viel Hass umher. Seitdem meine Reichweite hier wächst, kommen natürlich nicht nur Leute dazu denen meine Bilder gefallen, sondern tagtäglich auch User, denen nicht so gut gefällt was ich jeden Tag mache und zeige. Leuten denen ich zu klein, zu fett, zu hässlich, zu fake, zu unsympathisch, zu verschlossen, zu offen, zu normal, zu komisch, zu natürlich und zu stylisch bin. Und irgendwie hat jeder das Gefühl das man genau auf seine Meinung gewartet hat und dieser auch Wert zuspricht.

Auch unter den Bloggern und Instagrammern herrscht aktuell unglaublich viel Hass. Fast täglich gibt es in Insta-Storys Damen, die andere Kolleginnen in die Pfanne hauen, über Dinge beschuldigen oder Gerüchte streuen. Und bei mir persönlich macht das Insta-Storys aktuell sehr unbeliebt. Eigentlich bin ich ein Story Fan! Ich liebe die Möglichkeit direkt “live” mitzuerleben wie es bei den verschiedenen Bloggern läuft, was es neues gibt und welche Kooperationen anstehen aber aktuell meide ich die Updates. Ich gönne jedem einzelnen die Reichweite und all die kleinen Erfolge. Aber die ein oder andere Kollegin schießt sich aktuell selbst ins Bein damit andere Blogger vorzuführen. Von Rufmord und dem Ausmaß einiger Worte mal abgesehen, fallen unendlich viele unfreundliche Worte die den Blogger auch sehr unsympathisch wirken lassen.

Gerade regional kennt man sich ja doch als Blogger und ich verfolge auch sehr gerne meine Kolleginnen aus Bonn, Köln und Umgebung. Angenommen du arbeitest in einem normalen Betrieb und in deinem Arbeitsumfeld beginnen nun ein oder zwei Kollegen ständig über jemanden zu lästern, den sie garnicht richtig kennen und über den sie deswegen auch eigentlich kaum urteilen können: Es gelangt eine immense Unruhe in die Arbeitsatmosphäre. Irgendjemand beginnt deswegen mit Bauchschmerzen zur Arbeit zu kommen und überspitzt endet es irgendwann damit, dass eine Person kündigt. Und entweder ist es derjenige der regelmäßig zum “Opfer” der Lästereien wird, oder auch eine der Lästerschwestern selbst.

Sind wir doch mal ehrlich: Wer mit dir über Kollegen lästert, lästert mit anderen Kollegen wahrscheinlich auch über dich. Ganz unbewusst habe ich schnell angefangen davon Abstand zu halten. Ein Stück weit ist es vielleicht noch interessant und unterhaltsam, aber schneller als man “Amen Schwester!” sagen kann, wird man selbst zum neuen Opfer. Ich hoffe in meinen Kollegenkreis kommt bald wieder etwas Ruhe rein und dieses lästern hört auf. Denn wen man ehrlich ist, ist Instagram doch groß genug für uns alle. Wir müssen uns nicht gegenseitig schlecht vor Firmen machen um Kooperationen abzubekommen oder um ein bisschen Aufmerksamkeit zu erhaschen.

Und wer es doch machen muss, wird sich leider Gottes irgendwann damit abfinden müssen, dass sich alle von einem abwenden. Ein Schuss ins eigene Bein. Denn Lästerschwestern werden weder von Kooperationspartnern, Firmen oder Kollegen gemocht.

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Seit Silvester 2009 blogge ich auf www.schokoholica.de über Fashion, Beauty und Lifestyle. Während ich im Laufe der Zeit aus meinen Kinderschuhen herausgewachsen bin, ist Schokoholica noch immer ein kleiner Teil Kindheit und Jugendzeit, der mich noch immer so verkörpert und wiederspiegelt wie vor 7 Jahren.

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115 comments

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Neid und Missgunst gibt es immer und überall – leider. Dein Outfit sieht aber toll aus, grad die Farbe des Rockes find ich super. LG 🙂

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Tolles Outfit!

Um die Lästerschwestern kommt man leider nicht herum. Oder Menschen, die mit konstruktiver Kritik nichts anfangen können. Über das Internet fühlen die Lästerer sich leider noch “sicherer”.

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Ich finde es schlimm, dass das immer wieder so hochkocht und mich nervt dieses Geläster, der Neid und die Missgunst. Ich denke immer leben und leben lassen und im Endeffekt schadet derjenige der immer nur Lästert doch selbst, oder?
Liebe Grüße, Mona

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Hübsches Outfit. Du kannst es tragen, für mich persönlich wäre es nichts. Lieben Gruß

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Ein cooler Look. Lass dich nicht ärgern, es git überall Missgunst.

Liebe Grüße
Alexandra

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Tolles Outfit, hat was von Gossip Girl =) Das habe ich gar nicht wirklich mitbekommen, allerdings sehe ich mir die Stories auch nie an =)
Love, Héloise
Et Omnia Vanitas

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Ein wunderschönes Outfit! Super kombiniert und einfach sehr schick!
Du sieht wirklich toll aus 🙂

Liebst, Sarah von Belle Mélange

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Leider kommt mit dem Ruhm auch immer Neid und Missgunst. Aber das muss man sich eben auch erst mal verdienen.
Mir gefallen deine Outfits total gut, auch das aus diesem Post.
Mach weiter so!
Liebe Grüße
Sandra

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Sehr schöner Look! Das mit Instagram kann ich verstehen, aber lass dich einfach nicht ärgern. Bringt ja eh nichts! 🙂

Alles Liebe,
Verena
whoismocca.com

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Tja Neid und Missgunst gibts wohl überall. Ich habe keine Ahnung was da so passiert, ist nicht so mein Thema. Das Outfit sieht gut aus.

LG aus Norwegen
Ina

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Neid und Missgunst sind leider ständige Begleiter … auch bei mir. Schade, aber ich denke jeder bekommt, was er verdient ;-). Tolles Outfit und mega Ausstrahlung hast du!

Liebe Grüße
Verena

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Sehr cooler Look! Besonders die Farben finde toll kombiniert.

Liebe Grüße,
Christian
beatsanddogs.com

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Sehr schickes Outfit, dass dir hervorragend steht, Die Tasche gefällt mir besonders gut!
Liebe Grüße
Sigrid

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Dein Outfit ist mega süß! Vor allem die Tasche gefällt mir sehr.
Liebe Grüße
Geri

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Das ist glaub ich so ne Sache, die sich niemals ändern wird leider. Ich kenne solche Situation „nur“ (was ja schlimm genug ist) aus dem realen Leben. Auf Instagram (toitoitoi) kam noch nichts. Aber wie du sagst, mit der Reichweite, kommt auch die Missgunst. Lass dich nicht einschüchtern. Du machst das gut!

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Nice and perfect looking outfit..

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was Instagram aneght, habe ich zum Glück nicht solche Erfahrungen machen müssen!
tolles Outfit aber meine Liebe – die Tasche ist mein Favorit 🙂

liebste Grüße auch,
❤ Tina von http://www.liebewasist.com

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Sowas finde ich auch richtig richtig furchtbar. Deshalb sollte man sich davon fern halten. Und eines immer merken: Karma is a bitch 🙂 hahaha.

LG
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